Monday, September 19, 2011

happy happy


7 years ago yesterday, I married a man I met in September of 1988.

It took us a while, but we got ourselves together & we plan to stay that way till death do us part!!

I know I was bragging 2 years ago about how good we are at celebrating (we slept through it), & after an aborted dinner attempt last year (thank you, Crohn's disease for inviting yourself to the Melting Pot), we managed to step it up this year:
Chili's & a Kohl's shopping spree!!!!

It's ok to admit you're jealous. It really is.

Because of medicinal limitations we only had about a 2 hour window to party down-- again, don't be jealous. Over dinner Dave noticed the anniversary gift he had given me for our first anniversary (a diamond eternity band) on my right hand & we had a good laugh at how far we've come. From diamonds to maternity sweatpants :) The sad reality is, I'll probably wear the sweatpants more!! THAT is how glamorous I am, people.

So, here's a few shots of back when I actually was glamorous, comparatively speaking, of course, & one of the happiest times of my life!

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@ the "rehearsal" square dance...



@ the wedding!!!



on the honeymoon :)




Thursday, September 8, 2011

warning: boring words-only post!!!

Okay, my mom is sitting up in my office w/me, reminding me that one of the reasons I got on this was to update my adoring public on some new issues w/the pregnancy.

First of all, is ANYONE surprised that I'd be having issues?!?!?!? ;)

I am on hard core bed rest.
August 26th I made my first solo trip to the ER-- & honestly, at this point, I can't remember what motivated the visit-- not an emergency, obviously, but something off. Anyway, all was well. A little less than a week later, I started realizing that the discomfort I was feeling was in fact contractions. Thankfully, our friends Mary Kay, Ashley & Emma were here (still waiting on pics to be uploaded & then I will detail that FUN out), so I could leave for the doctor w/no worry about Emmett. I was monitored for about an hour, & then they gave me a fetal fibronectin test. Feel free to google that-- Dave had to since he was out of town & I couldn't explain it properly-- but basically, it came back positive, which puts me at a heightened risk of having this baby w/in 2 wks of the test. What I've learned since is that once you test positive, you pretty much keep testing positive, so, long story medium-long, I am showing signs of preterm labor & they are hoping this little lady can hang in there till 36 wks. I am, as of yesterday, 31 wks. Prayers are, as ever, welcome.

The pro's:
1. She was 3 lb 2 oz as of my last sonogram, which was Aug. 20-something, so we might have a little fatty on our hands.
2. She is PERFECT. No health concerns to worry about. (PRAISE GOD!!)
3. I am wondering if God knows maybe my body can't do the whole 9 mos & this possible early delivery could spare me some trauma. (OBVIOUS speculation on my part)
4. Totally superficial, but tiny tiny babies are too cute for words... so we would have a guarantee that she'd be cute ;)

The con's:
1. It's not good for her to be early!!! She needs to grow inside me!
2. I don't want to have to leave her at the hospital in the NICU!!
3. It could cause blood complications for me since I can't yet get in sync w/my hematology office & am on the wrong blood thinners for possible delivery. (this is only temporary, of course)

At the moment I am 1 cm dilated, which is kind of a who-cares, but also shows the contractions are doing something. I will be under weekly surveillance from my AWESOME OB, so there really is nothing to worry about. My contractions fluctuate between super frequent & barely there, so it is just up in the air at this point. None of my doctors are freaking out or panicked, which is great; I feel at peace, too-- God has more than proved Himself faithful (like He needs to!) w/me in the past, so I trust His timing in all this! Truly!!

Speaking of!!! The day I found out my life was about to be confined to reclining, a sweet friend gave me the name of a girl looking for a nanny position! She is PRECIOUS, Christian, so loving toward Emmett & even agreed to help out w/housework & DINNER. If you know me well, you know how dinner is my most intimidating of all domestic responsibilities!! So not only is my Emmett cared for, but so am I!! It is working out fabulously-- my mom is getting some much needed time off! AND another dear friend offered to take Emmett w/her to BSF every Thursday morning-- if you know BSF, you know what a huge gift this is!! So my mom only has to be on call half of Thursdays & all of Fridays. It is working out perfectly!! & hopefully we'll pull through to the due date (Nov. 1), but whatever the case, we have been well blessed on every front.

Even the nursery is almost finished!!!

Ok, so I MUST go get back to being reclined instead of just sitting, & this will wrap up the massive blogging massacre of September 8, 2011. I will post more pics soon-- we got some great 3D profile shots of the little miss, & I'll get Dave to shoot the nursery, too AND Emmett's room. Things are all new around our upstairs :)

All right!! I'm shutting up!!!


the promised addition



Can I get an AMEN on this being a particularly hilarious picture of Emmett???

We had a fun week w/friends in town from LA-- great times w/the whole family & some adult times, too, getting to see some in-town friends we never see (which is ridiculous) b/c of our CA visitors. It was very fun &, for me, the first "partying" I've done since Easter. It was perfect timing, because Dave was off of work, so they all took off for a day in the mountains (I couldn't go) & came back w/these pics that made me feel like I had been, too!!

Do you see his arm bands?!?!? Cracks me up!!

Andrew, Avery, Kate & Emmett

Dave & Emmett w/a barely peeking-in Michelle

Emmett doing the all-important tummy check. He & Sara are just a week apart!

Sara

Avery & Kate

the whole fam :)

one last Emmett shot

Come back soon, Walters!!! It was too fun to have you around!!

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I was realizing in my last post that I have no pics representing another important guest we had earlier this summer: Auntie Alyssa!!! She came while Dave was in Munich & I was still bedridden to help me make it through the week! What a Godsend, literally!!! It was not our normal crafty-fun time, BUT we managed to squeeze in plenty of fun (well, as much as you can w/someone who feels terrible) while she was here in baby boot camp. She was amazing-- took care of EVERYTHING-- diapers to dinner, ALL THINGS!! It was a huge blessing to me & my little man!! & of course, we anxiously await another visit, but I'm thinking next time, I'd like to go to her... childless :) Obviously, that won't happen for some time, but you gotta have a dream, right?!?

more to come...

Monday, September 5, 2011

catch up



Whoa.
Busy times here in the little city :)

We have been showered w/loving company since I last posted! I can't even get to them all, so I will post again, I promise, BUT here's a little taste for you 3 die hards that still check in on us :)



Dave's sweet mom, Carole, came to help us out while I was still somewhat bedridden :) Emmett was a very adored child that week, & of course loved every minute of it! Extra hugs & kisses, a new lap to sit in, new hands clapping over his accomplishments... it was great for all of us!!




Our friends came home from the Argentine mission field & we got to at least spend one afternoon together!! Here's Paula & all the little boys :) Next time they're in town I hope to be able to participate in life a little more! But it was great to introduce all the little men to each other & fun to just be breathing the same air, even if our adult conversation was heavily punctuated w/tiny voiced interruptions.



& lastly, for this round anyway, Dave's dad & Susan came to see us right at Dave's birthday!! What a great time we had!! We celebrated Dave-- w/dinner & a trip to the Mt. Evans (Emmett was in heaven) & then they sweetly helped us celebrate Emmett's move from baby to boy by getting him his big twin bed!!! We had a fabulous time setting his room up-- ready to go thanks to Dave's brother, who generously gave up a Sunday to come paint it for us!! We had a great time w/family dinners & lounging, chatting for hours & playing w/the boy. It was wonderful!!

Emmett w/Grammy

w/Grandpa

& out on his own :)



Oh, man! My friend over @ SundrenchedMoments is right, every new stage is my favorite stage!! Emmett is a great joy-giver in all of my crazy health mess :) I couldn't be happier in the lot God has given me-- living here w/the two most amazing guys on the planet!! We are getting ready for little sister to make her debut-- updates on her coming soon as well!!